This PostSecret makes me smile.
I consider myself bi even though I have yet to date a woman. Some of my college friends are slightly in denial about the whole thing. I think it makes them nervous/uncomfortable that I could have been attracted to them when they were wandering around the room naked (a few of you, yes, but I wouldn't have admitted it back then). I managed to befriend many conservatives who later admitted they were afraid to be roomed with a lesbian. I had no idea lesbians were scary. :)
When I told my last partner that I was bi he was quiet for a time before he started asking questions. Most of the answers he wanted skirted around fidelity. For some reason his brain linked bisexuality with promiscuity and infidelity. The pool of potential partners may seem larger, but that doesn't mean I'm going to go shag as many people as possible. It also doesn't mean that I'm going to think shagging someone of the opposite sex to whom I'm dating won't be cheating. I have a straight friend whose boyfriend doesn't mind her making out with women because she's straight. I find this slightly odd, but to each their own. In my case it would be cheating, something I have never done. I've been a cheat-ee, which I occasionally regret, but never a cheat-er.
Alright, time to get back to Penelope. She's been patiently waiting for my attention.
